Manipulador: como reconhecer

09 de julho de 2018

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 indivíduos que conseguem mudar conscientemente o seu entorno a fim de obter benefícios próprios e que, sem dúvida, afetam os outros (família, amigos, colegas de trabalho, etc.). É preciso conhecer bem o perfil dessas pessoas para não cair em suas armadilhas. É claro que queremos ser felizes e que tudo acabe bem, mesmo estando diante de um manipulador,mas há momentos em que é melhor se afastar.

É muito tênue a linha entre uma pessoa que pede ajuda e uma que manipula o outro para obter retornos. Neste último caso, ela busca o próximo como um objeto, uma mercadoria, uma coisaum recurso para aproveitarSão egoístas e usam métodos diferentes para convencer o outro, como por exemplo a ilusão, a pressão e o engano.

Existem diferentes razões pelas quais um homem ou uma mulher é manipulador/aPor exemplo, conveniência, medo ou autoafirmaçãoPreferem o caminho mais curto, as mentiras, as promessas que não cumprem, a chantagem, o suborno, etc. Pulam os procedimentos para alcançar o sucesso com facilidade. “Não seja tão certo“, “Ninguém vai notar“, “É mais rápido desta forma“, são algumas de suas frases favoritas.

Estas são algumas dicas que podem ajudá-lo a reconhecer um manipulador:

– A mentira: ele tem uma grande capacidade de mentiré um especialista nissoPode torcer a realidade e levá-la para onde ficará melhor”. Ouça com atenção para perceber que mente para todos, do parceiro ao garçom, passando por um cliente ou vendedor da loja. Se você disser algosua resposta será falar mal do recentemente “enganado“.

– Ocultar coisas: pode esconder informações pessoais, como seu número de telefone ou o endereçoou desconversar ao ter que responder sobre suas ações, pensamentos, opiniões, etc. Por outro lado, querem saber tudo sobre você, de seus afetos à sua profissão. Os melhores respodem conseguir que o outro confesse muito sem perceber.

– A adulação: trata-se de uma das habilidades mais interessantes do manipuladorEle sabe fazer isso muito bem. Descobre o que faz você se sentir especial para ganhar sua confiançaNão se deixe enganar por aqueles que adulam muito facilmente as pessoas sem conhecê-lasporque não será com motivos desinteressados.

– A promessa: é uma das armas favoritasPor exemplo, se é um homem que acabou de conhecer uma mulher irá lhe dizer que se casarão, terão filhosviajarão pelo mundo, etc. É assim que começa o seu modo de agirTenha cuidado, porque você pode acabar seriamente ferido emocional e psicologicamente por isso.

– Os favores: a princípio, o manipulador geralmente ajuda em tudo que podecomo se fosse algo compulsivo, que não pode parar. Vai agradarajudar, levará você para casaconsertará algo em sua casa. Mas espere, porque eles vão saber pedir no momento certo, pois essa é apenas uma estratégia. Os presentes e favores nunca foram 100sem interesse.

– A emoção: é outro recurso que um manipulador usa com experiência através de veia emocional. É que os sentimentosquando são intensos, não nos permitem agir ou pensar com clareza. Usa o medo e a culpa para pressionar os outros quando querem algo em troca. “Olhão que você fez“, “Eu nunca o tratei tão mal“, “Por que você não me ligou?“. Também pode assustar com sinais como “Não faça isso”, “Não será bem sucedido”, etc.

– A sombra: não apenas esconde informações sobre sua privacidade, mas também desaparece onde não há luz para poder analisar melhor a vítima. É até possível que utilizar e outras pessoas para procurar dados de sua próxima presa (outro manipulado). Não é uma pessoa honesta, nem transparente nem responsável. Do nada, começa a espalhar fofocas sobre alguém, enredar as pessoas em suposições, exagerar os fatoscolocar alguns“ingredientes” próprios em um relato, etc.

Você deve prestar atenção aos sinais quando se repetemNão quer dizer que porque um jovem que você nunca tinha visto antes diga que você usa um vestido bonito é uma manipuladora.Nem que se um colega de trabalho não lhe conta sobre sua vida privada o torne um. Mas se o comportamento ocorre com frequência, é melhor você ficar o mais longe possível dessa pessoa.

É que, mais cedo ou mais tarde, ele conseguirá que você faça o que ele quer, podendo causar danos aos seus entes queridos ou a pessoas que você não conhece.

Se você descobriu um manipulador em seu círculo íntimo (família, amigos, trabalho, escola,bairro)proteja os outros que possam ficar sob suas garrasFique longemesmo que isso signifique uma grande dor para você. Procure estar sempre em paz e tranquilo com ele, porque você não sabe como ele pode agir.

Provavelmente a melhor opção seja ficar longe dessa pessoaSe você tem confiança suficiente até pode ajudá-la a procurar ajuda profissional. Se ela se recusa a ver que tem um problema ou lhe trata mal quando você menciona o assunto, não pressione. Todos nós podemos amadurecer e mudar com o tempo mas, em muitos casos, precisamos aprender a aceitar a ajuda.

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